Dating advice for women

I am going to share with you the most important rules of dating.

There is nothing that triggers more anxiety – even in the most confident women – than the first date with a man who we are really attracted to. We are worried about a lot of things… ‘Will he like the clothes I’m wearing?’ . ‘Will he like me?’,
‘What should we talk about?’ etc…

The first impression is important but it is also important that you do not try to look like someone else, who you are not even if you know how you should behave in order to make a good impression on the man who you are on a date with.
The first date is not the best time to try a new hairstyle and wear clothes or shoes that you are wearing for the first time.

The most important thing on the first date is to be relaxed, have fun and be yourself!

Nobody wants to date an anxious woman, especially one who tries to be somebody she is not. On a date both parties must feel good , otherwise there won’t be any more dates later.

Decide before the date that you will feel good and have fun.

Do not let yourself get talked into anything that you would not like to do on the first date. If the man suggests that you go to play bowling and you’ve just only once played bowling before and you hated it then do not accept this plan for the date.

No matter how hard you want to make the impression on the man that you like his favourite sport , if this is not true then you just won’t feel good and this will ruin your whole date.

Instead of accepting his plans that you don’t like, suggest him another option that both of you will enjoy.

Doing things that are enjoyable by themselves and you can also talk while doing them are great. For example: darts, skating, bicycling… Going to a movie on the first date is certainly not the best thing to do, because you can’t really talk during the film so you won’t get to know each other really well.

One more thing you will have to be aware of: there is nothing else in the world that can ruin a man’s date more than a woman who is always complaining. A date is not the best time to talk about your ex-boyfriends or about your idiot boss. You can talk about these topics with your friends or your family but with your future-boyfriend talk about pleasant topics.

Men like when a woman asks questions and does not just talk. However do not ask them too much boring questions.

In order to meet the right man you will have to date many men. Date as much as you would like to and don’t let anybody tell you differently.

By dating a new man every week you won’t become a bad girl. You have the right to meet men.

Good luck!

If you want to attract a quality man then it is good thing if you are serious , funny and unpredictable… all of this at the
same time.

Being a little bit funny and unpredictable makes wonders but if you can stay unpredictable in serious issues then that will make men really feel attraction towards you.

Let’s say that for example you are sitting in a bar or a restaurant and you are talking to a man , who is very interesting
to you. If you are like most women then you ask him routine, boring questions, like what he does for a living and how is his relationship with his family.

This is BORING.

These topics are too ordinary! Yes, maybe he will talk about himself, his life but you will notice that he will be
looking at the other woman at the other table, who is smiling and telling a story about her life and seemingly has
a really good time.

Being predictable is the biggest enemy of being interesting.

If you are all the time predictable , then you won’t be interesting for sure. So it is very important to do interesting and surprising things.

Asking boring and ordinary questions can be useful if you want to get to know the man who you are on a date with but if you ask too much unexciting questions , then it can really hinder the success of your date.

On the first date you will feel an urge to ask some facts about the man but if you keep doing this , then you won’t be special and the man won’t think of you all the time after your date. Try to become a woman who has a lot of surprises and be like this in the first months of your new relationship.

Be Your Awesome Self

How do you feel walking into a club? Like you have to do something special, be cool or whatever, or that you can be yourself? I think what you get as a gut reaction toward the question I just asked, says alot about your mindset. How did you take the question? Was it “Of course I have to do something special, or I won’t be special”, or do you have the knowledge that it really IS by being yourself that you shine..? You need to learn that, but not only intellectually – you need to KNOW that. “Be myself” should take the place of “become good enough”. If you are looking to become good enough you cannot be good enough, as the focus is that you aren’t. Of course, you always work on bettering yourself – but if you can become better, that means that you already have that potential inside yourself; and that it really, rather than something that you magically apply to your genes from outside, is something you awaken inside yourself.
Big difference.

The moment you realize you are good enough, is the moment you are allowed to let that person shine. It’s true, but you will not believe this if you don’t let go of becoming “like you are supposed to be”. You have to let all your depth show – and that depth, together with all other interesting nuances that you kept for yourself, will become awesomely shiny.

I said you have kept stuff for yourself, and I mean that – because let’s face it, how dynamic is the superficial picture that media pumps out, of how we are supposed to be? …Not very dynamic. And, in order to fit that image – you have limited yourself severely. I can tell you that you have blocked out a lot of behaviour, that people would have loved to interact with, just because you made some stupid assumption – based on, not action but just theory; which is not the way to go, especially not in a social context – that you did, perhaps on auto-pilot, in your search for “being good enough”.

This post will describe a little tricky way to attract men. This method can help some women to meet men.

One of my friends told me about this method and I am happy to share it with you.

She said that when she wanted to meet a man, she always used this trick. She does not go to clubs because in clubs the men aren’t really nice. She meets men when she does her shopping.

This is a good way to meet men because the men who do their shopping on their own must be mature and it is very likely that they are single because if they had a girlfriend then she would do the shopping…

So as she is shopping in the mall and spots a hot man she just walks near him and starts to watch the goods that the man is watching and after a little while she looks at him, smiles and asks him about the particular good that they are looking at. For example: She asks him how much the stuff that they are at costs. Even better if the man already looks curious about a particular good and she tells things about that to him which men really appreciate.
For example: ‘This cheese is very delicious. I have bought this one several times before.’

The point is that she just initiates conversation with the man in an ‘innocent’ way and if the man likes her then he will make the next move for sure. You must smile and be nice for this method to work.

After a little bit of small talk she moves on and continues shopping. If the man liked her, then he will approach her again in the mall or shop and this time he will be the one to start a conversation.

She says that this method works almost all the time.

This is just a little tip I wanted to share with you. Good luck with this method!

Just Be Who You Are, And You Will Be Attractive

The following will be a few quick tips for women to attract men – by being who they are. It’s very powerful, and very true.

What did Cinderella have to put on for the ball? Not much. But she fixed that – and so will you. Right? Find the absolute best thing, and just as much for how it makes you FEEL. If you feel like the queen you are the queen – so dress like it. But this is all about bringing out your personality FULL FORCE – meaning your charisma comes, not from being someone else but, from being yourself 100%. This means, you find the clothes you love to have on – and start shining. Decide you will, and you will. Forget you can’t, and do it. Look at someone like…; take your personal fashion icon. How does that person dress? Is it REALLY because her clothing is so amazing, or does she somehow MAKE it amazing? That’s what you are supposed to do.

You have to be different – but trying to be different is exactly what everyone else is doing; so that’s a no-no. …But don’t worry – it’s not hard; when you let who you are come out, unapologetically, you are naturally different. So just do that. Focus on just doing that – and you will do fine. Go by your gut feeling, in what you do – and your real intentions will shine through. You are a woman, you don’t want to think – and don’t take it the wrong way, I’m not talking about being stupid but rather about our need to have fun – deep inside, we all want to be playful like kittens… this is the time to be that. Let go of thinking – go by your gut feeling – and have fun in the moment.. then see what happens.

Men want Real Caring Hot Sexy Loving Women.

Men represent the masculine energy and Women represent the feminine energy. Men want that feminine energy in their life because that makes them complete.

Men fight each other so that the winner gets that feminine energy. Men love women. They love their presence, their vibe, their aura.

Men not only want women. They want glory too. Competition. That is why they love sports. They love adventure and the feeling of being a winner.

Men want freedom too so don’t be to needy. Don’t call your partner too often. Don’t text him every minute. However make sure that he feels that you love her.

This is very important. Men want to be loved.

It is very important for a woman to be real. Don’t be fake.

Make a good first impression – but not through anything manipulative, but through expressing your real desire and intention; we are all about honesty. Complete honesty is a non-soul-killer, as opposed to manipulation, so go for that behaviour; manipulation carries over into everything else in your life, pretty mcuh literally, and so will make you into gollum. A girl-gollum. On this expression-not-impression note: Express who you are. Don’t hold back anything – relax and express every little nuance and do so continuously. ..Actually, that’s the thing – you need to monitor how nuanced you are in your behaviour not to fall back into analyzation-mode; if you are an overanalyzing type person; which might work for other areas, but not here.

Provide reasons for him to keep you in his mind. Examples? A great cologne; an awesome smell is a great turn on. Just be feminine really – in your clothes, in your smile; and if you don’t get a million things popping up in your mind now your alarm needs to set off – you are SUPPOSED to be feminine as a girl so learn how to be/that you can be.
use your voice femininely, and focus as being as sensual as you can possibly be. You two are persons hanging out with each other, and that’s the way it should be. Right? He wants it, and if you think rationally for a moment – which, face it, is a real good choice – not doing also that will likely hurt you.
Be original, but be it by being WHO YOU ARE. …Get me? Don’t try to be original – a lot of people do that. Stop trying and you WILL be original. Don’t care – just express your unique personality.

Be the center of attention.

Don’t pretend to be shy. Stand out from other women by taking steps toward getting him; women don’t do this in general – even though men are taught not to be aggressive. …see how this turns into a bad circle of inaction? This standing-in-the-middle thing you should incorporate into how you stand. Get it? TAKE UP SPACE. Be a goddess.

You can also try being at the corners, if you are in a bar. You will meet people and the bartender, likely. Paradoxically, separating yourself a bit from others makes you easier to talk to – so don’t be at the walls or a full table or such things. That’s a no go.

This is a nobrainer for women, but: take care of your appearance 100%. Actually, do you take the time to look good wherever you go, and not just the club? A big part of becoming a goddess is to MAKE your clothes look good; why do you think Victoria Beckham looks good in “anything”..? Because she’s famous? Right… It’s because she found a way to shine in whatever. But, other than that, pink-peach often works as it generally attracts men. Use colors that are in your eyes, also.

Body language rules. Be aware of the people around you – and tune into their rhythm with your whole body – speak with your whole body. Be as nuanced as possible; focus on this at the beginning, or fronm the beginning and throughout almost, and you will really get tuned into your emotional brain – and this is of course a very good thing.

Don’t talk only about yourself, pick your nails, crunch ice – not these things specifically, really, but anything that you can think of that signals that you are nervous or lack manners.

Let’s say you spot the man who you like…only one question remains…What to do?

First step: Talk to him! Say anything that gives a good reason the the man to notice you. Ask him things that are relevant to the situation that you are in. For example: “Hi!What are you doing?” , “You have a great hairstyle.”. You can ask men about sport matches or just about anything. The point is to start a conversation.

Continue the interaction by telling the man something about yourself related to the topic that you were talking about.
Be careful though and don’t speak too much. It is important.

If your communication is going well you can talk about ‘deeper’ topics so that you not only talk about superficial
topics.

Ask him if he’d like to join any activity that you are currently doing. For example: ‘I was just heading to the tea house in the 46th Street to drink some tea. You can join me if you want’ or ‘I am getting a little bored playing darts… wouldn’t you like to take a walk on the Beach instead?’.

Have Fun!

Are you a positive person? If not, can you become one? This is of course nothing manipulative-to-get-guys at all but just good for you generally in life – actually it is AMAZING. So, can you let go of all excuses to be positive? If you do, you will likely reap rewards much faster than you’d think.
If you are a deep person, can you sometimes mix that up with being upbeat? Because, I think you enjoy being that way too – but maybe you hold something back and “become a deep person” because you are shy or so; using it as an excuse. It’s okay to be stupid; infact, it’s not stupid to be stupid if it’s in the right context – when you go out to party I think you WANT to have fun, but maybe for some reason, shyness or things like that, you hold back that part of you and rationalize why you do it. So… just be positive!

Flirt around. have fun with it. Express yourself through your flirting – as opposed to pushing buttons. Just have fun with another person; if you just relax about it, he will, and you both will attract each other. Thinking about that scenario gives you a good feeling, didn’t it? It actually gave me a good feeling just writing it.
Of course, if it doesn’t work out – no big deal. Throughout the process you two remain “two person having a good time”. it’s nothing bigger. By the way, keeping up that mentaility for a long time – weeks or months – will releive you of a lot of the stress you might have experienced otherwise. So try it.

Of course, if you are that deep person maybe you aren’t going out much. No big deal if you haven’t, but start doing it! To make it more comfortable, just start talking more to people. ..if you don’t associate a lot of negative things to talking to strangers, which if you do you can actually choose to disregard, then it will be no big deal and you will realize you get a lof more out of it than you “lose”.